Create Space To Love

If you really want to have an amazing relationship with your spouse you have to create space for the two of you to love each other. 

A Space that doesn’t get taken from. 

Where you can love each other in the midst of raising children, earning a living, and fulfilling other expectations in life. 

One must be deliberate in this pursuit. Your marriage just isn’t going to be terrible or wonderful with no effort on either side. 

If you want to have an amazing relationship, an amazing marriage you must be the wife you want to be. 

Step into that role as the lioness, fierce lover (or whatever style you desire). 

Be his “biggest fan”, love him with all you got, go all in. 

But to do so, you’ve got to create that space. And if you remember any of my crazy, you’ll know that expectations smother any chance to create a space of love and understanding. 

Expectations are the opposite of creating space. 

So enough already Momma, learn to let go so you can learn to love again.