Pre-kids Spontaneous Hot & Steamy Relationship
Hey Momma,
You want your ‘pre kids’, spontaneous, hot & steamy relationship back don’t you?
The one where you couldn’t keep your hands off each other, the one that you didn’t fight over silly things like socks on bathroom floors, and flushing toilets?
Can I just say that it is totally possible to get it back. Maybe even better than ever. The truth here is that we can get you that dreamy relationship you’ve always wanted without changing your husband. Actually the work we do on you, when we light that spark in you, THAT is the spark that creates more passion in your marriage.
I want you to think back to marriage ‘pre-kids’ ; everything was awesome and fun. You were clear on who you were, on what your marriage was. But then…. After those beautiful babies come, we lose ourselves. We forget who we are, therefore our marriage and passion begin to dwindle.
Therefore to create more passion and joy in our lives and in our marriage we have to first and foremost find out who we are to find out who and what we want (AND of course DON’T want). When you do this work you find out what you want in your marriage AND you have the confidence and certainty to get it, and LOVE IT!
Here are the three lies that hold you back from believing this.
You have been told…
Lie #1- To be a good mom you have to worry about everyone else first.
Lie #2- It is selfish to work on yourself.
Lie #3- You think it’s your job to change your husband, to make him support him to make him ‘better’.
You’ve been told these things over the years through society, cultural norms, religious belief systems that you need to sacrifice everything for your family. Give and give to your husband and children. Be the martyr in your family. It’s your responsibility to sacrifice to lift up your husband and make them better. You believe that you are here to fulfill THEIR life. But the truth here is that empowering yourself, lifting yourself up, being an equal, a woman with passion, confidence, clarity and power….. That woman can create a relationship full of unfaltering love and connection.
When you do this work on you, YOU start to feel secure and confident in your relationship. You come to your relationship with more power, more intention. You create the love story you’ve always dreamed about.
To create this love story you need to…
Set up boundaries.
Stop blaming our partners.
Become independent from others emotions.
Learn to speak your truth.
We are able to trust more and we are free from dependent energy. We are confident and intentional. We love more. And you create more connections with your spouse.
But I know what you are thinking…
You’re thinking you’re so busy with work, the house, the kids that you just don’t have enough time. But let me offer you this. Right now you are spending countless hours worrying about your marriage, your family. I see you scrolling social media and amazon each and everyday trying to find something to help you “feel good”.
And I know you’re worried about spending anymore money. But can we just talk for a minute about how much money you’ve invested on that beautiful home you have? You’ve invested thousands of dollars on all the decorations, renovations and projects in the home, but lets be real without a strong foundation in your marriage what purpose does the house really serve? You keep putting this off. You keep pushing all the problems in your marriage under the rug. But momma, it’s just getting more and more urgent. Now is the time. This is your priority, let’s spend some time focusing on you, so you can give all you’ve got to that hunky hunny, and beautiful family you got.
I guarantee that when you make time for you, when you do the thought work and light that spark in you…. That EVERYTHING changes. You will have a full marriage renovation and you’re the only one swinging the hammer. Let’s do this Momma!
First step of any renovation is a good evaluation. Let’s set up your FREE Relationship Evaluation call HERE so we can get started on creating that beautiful love story you’ve always dreamed of.
