Your Husband Actually Adores You

You don't think he does because you've determined what "adoring you" should look like. You think he should comment on your hair, that he should plan date nights and make arrangements for childcare, you think he shouldn't be on his phone when you're home, you think that if he listens to you and does everything you say... THAT is adoring you. 

Oh momma. 

When you create all these expectations you don't create ANY SPACE for him to love you. 

To love more, to be loved, to feel loved you must take away all expectations you've created. You must stop micromanaging him, and let him love the way he wants.

When you take away all the expectations you've created you can see that you are everything to him. 

Stop micromanaging the way he shows love to you. Your torturing yourself. 

Your husband shows love for you in a million and one ways. It's just not the way you think he should. 

Expectations smother passion, like a bucket of wet leaves on a roaring fire. 

AND 

Control decays love, like the rotting of a once beautiful red crisp apple. 

When we let go of what we think our love story should look like, we can love more. We can be loved more. You'll begin to feel relaxed, your body will be filled with love and compassion and the judgment and criticism will begin to leave you.